Women are proudly refusing to Submit to their men

The obsession that men have with making women become submissive doormats is a bit irritating. I come across so many meme's about independent women not cooking for their men, or strong women with degrees that refuse to clean for their men. We currently live in the year 2019. We are not living in the 1950's, back when the man was the bread winner because women were less likely to get hired or get loans to start their own business.

I will not submit to a man simply because he has XY chromosomes. I will not submit simply because a man has a penis and produces semen. I will not submit simply because a man is psychically stronger or taller in height. Some men think that having a submissive woman is their birth right. There are men walking around that actually think that because they have a penis, that women are suppose to cater to their needs and obey their commands just because. Men are still in denial about how the world has turned and why women are no longer weak submissive lap dogs. These men want a woman that will not question them when they've been out cheating all night. They want their women to be delayed and not use common sense in order to keep her man comfortable and content. Men want a submissive woman that will go along with whatever he dishes out, just to keep a false sense of peace in the house.

In my experience, submissive women become dependent on their spouse and never question anything or use their own judgement. 

Non submissive women are considered combative, loud, too independent, or too outspoken. Men are looking for a woman that they can control and over power. They want to control a woman's thoughts, the way she dresses, the way she spends her money and the way she uses her sexuality. 

Women are proudly refusing to submit, some even refusing to get into relationships. Women shouldn't have to be treated like a child, in order to make a man feel masculine. Women should not have to be mute in order to not sabotage a man's sensitive ego. Women are becoming more aware of their value and worth, and are refusing to submit to an unworthy man simply because of his testosterone. Unfortunately we have men that believe that women should submit to them just because. Not because they are wealthy providers, or because they are educated and established. Men actually believe that having a penis make them worthy of being a leader and having a submissive follower.

Black Women criticized for having high expectations in a Man

This may sound cute in the beginning, trying to prove to a man that you only want his love and time. These women claim that all they need is time, love and attention. Even if you don't require a man to pay your bills or rent, he should still have steady income and some form of education or skills to fall back on. Black women have been submitting to struggle love for too long. Too many sistas think they are not qualified to date a man that is financially stable or educated. When I hear a woman say, or a woman make a facebook status about only needing a man for time and love; I assume that she doesn't know her self-worth and think she is only worthy of a broke struggling men.

It's heartbreaking to see so many women that don't believe they are worthy of a good stable man with an education/career.
I'm positive, that these women do want a good qualified man, but in order to lure a man in, they feed them lies about only wanting his love and nothin else. I never hear men say things like " I don't want her pussy, I just want her love and time" or "I don't require anything from her, but love and attention". Women are using this fake "struggle Love" as a way to get the attention of men. Stop lying to these men. You need more than just love. If you are giving a man your time, heart, feelings, vagina, he should be bringing more than just attention. Stop creating the illusion that women don't need anything but love. Men do not start out loving your or giving you all of their time, so how can any woman only request those things.

The last thing that Black women should do is teach our daughters, granddaughters, nieces, and little sisters, is to only require love and time from a man. Love will not fix the car, love will not keep the electricity going, love with not put food in the pantry. Stop lying to these men. There are other ways to attract men besides lying and feeding them a fraudulent fantasy of not needing anything. A man is not giving you love from day one. Usually their goal is to get you in bed. So stop having low standards and tricking our black men into believing that they can come with nothin but love and attention.