Feminist Theory Men want to raise strong Daughters but marry submissive women

How many men have told their daughters to never depend on a man and focus on their education? How many men have told their daughters to never waste their time on a man unless he's going to marry her and take care of her. I've never heard a father in my community or family tell their daughters to serve a man by being his maid, servant, or submissive wife. Why do men hate the Feminist movement but enstill values in their daughters that would resemble the same Feminist characteristics that men claim to hate.

I've often heard men make comments about their daughters becoming college graduates and never being dependent on anyone. Or men saying that their daughters better not have any babies before college/career.

Even before the Notorious BIG died he rapped the lyrics in his hit song Sky's The Limit :


"If the game shakes me or breaks me
I hope it makes me a better man
Take a better stand
Put money in my moms hand
Get my daughter this college plan, so she don't need no man
Stay far from timid
Only make moves when your heart's in it
And live the phrase Sky's The Limit"


He makes a reference to getting his daughter, whom was a baby at the time, a college grant so she won't need a man. It's quite obvious that the rapper wanted his daughter to be a career orientated woman so that she would not get trapped with a man that she has to rely on.Fathers think this way, and their is nothing wrong with wanting your daughter to have an education and be independent. The same men will talk trash about the women that work hard, have a degree and are in no rush to marry and become a mom/wife. If a father want the best for his daughter, he should want the best for every other woman. Although this song is over 15 years old, the message is still relevant today. Men want their daughters to be Independent, strong, education and self sufficient. You can't expect to raise wise women, but marry weak submissive doormat women that rub your back after you've been out cheating and lying all day.