Monday, October 15, 2018

Polygamy as a sexual Fantasy in the Black Community

Women sharing a man in the community has become acceptable amongst many for years. It is the norm for a man to entertain multiple women, with more women being comfortable with this modern day love triangle. Men are using mind manipulation and control to have their women in pairs. This is modern day polygamy. What is this you might wonder?
This is a man that has convinced two or more women that he is capable of loving them, while sharing his mind, heart, body and soul. These men can manipulate two women into believing they should share him, and in return they both get to have a man. These men are using every fear tactic possible to convince women that they should share a man. They usually tell women that they will be alone if they don't accept modern day polygamy. They also convince women that they will struggle alone if they don't share their men. Some even tell the women that if they have high self esteem and confidence, they can share a man. They brainwash women into thinking that sharing a man makes her a confident strong woman.

Women will fall for the trick. The man will always come out on top. He can have his sexual needs fulfilled by more than one woman. He receives mental support, from more than one women. He is usually the center of attention and gets to enjoy everything in variety. The man is able to manipulate these women and play them against each other at his convenience. These women are expected to give 100% while the man gives whatever he wants at the time. While he has access to more than one woman, the women are in line waiting for attention and love. The women have to wait until he is available, but she is expected to be there around the clock for her man she is sharing. It is all a sexual Fantasy and Fetish for the man in the center of this love triangle.
This is the new cheat code for cheating. Men are convincing women to become a part of a low triangle by love bombing and promises. The man is able to be the center of attention while the women fight for the attention and emotional support they received in the low bombing stage or the honeymoon stage. Eventually one woman will become tired and exhausted after fighting for a secured place in his life and feeding his ego. The other woman may feel like she is in a competition or a marathon, and the prize is an engagement ring or a role as the leading lady. This is all a game and a major ego boost for the man involved.

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